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Alky 2009
Don't Date Him Girl

A friend just sent me a link to this site, interesting to say the least. Good idea in theory, but from what I was able to find it doesn't appear that there is any control over who gets added to the database. Any girl can post any guy's name, photo, and city to warn other girls away from him. Pretty fucking scary that they anyone can get thrown up on that site, whether they actually did cheat or not.

Thing that bothered me the most was one story in the site's blog that talked about a girl who sent a guy into the database and claimed he had given her an STD. He wrote them to complain, saying that he did cheat but he's never had an STD and he wanted that part removed. They made him not only fax his test results to them, but the site also contacted the lab directly to confirm them before they would remove the allegations.

For all the good the internet does, it seems like something like this could completely ruin a guy's life. The obvious answer is don't cheat, well... duh, but the idea that any girl can post any guy on this site without any verification is pretty scary.

Thoughts?
avec
QUOTE(AlkalineDrown @ Mar 28 2006, 04:34 PM) [snapback]51471[/snapback]


I don't like it.
without_opinion
QUOTE(AlkalineDrown @ Mar 28 2006, 02:34 PM) [snapback]51471[/snapback]

Don't Date Him Girl

For all the good the internet does, it seems like something like this could completely ruin a guy's life. The obvious answer is don't cheat, well... duh, but the idea that any girl can post any guy on this site without any verification is pretty scary.

Thoughts?



if you're worried about this site's ability to ruin someone's life who doesn't deserve it, i wouldn't present the website to others on a message board. just sayin'
Alky 2009
QUOTE(without_opinion @ Mar 28 2006, 02:37 PM) [snapback]51476[/snapback]

if you're worried about this site's ability to ruin someone's life who doesn't deserve it, i wouldn't present the website to others on a message board. just sayin'


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Thought about that, but I thought it would be interesting to throw it out there for discussion.
thrillho
that site is somewhat hilarious. but just ranks in there with the millions of other things i hate about women.

if some dudes started thisbitchiscrazy.com, there'd be riots in the streets.
NumberTenOx
QUOTE(yancy @ Mar 28 2006, 02:46 PM) [snapback]51489[/snapback]

I've been trying to think of ways to become hated outside of SOMB. Search = over.

All that remains is to determine if you're going to be the guy setting up the website, or the guy who's the subject of the website. I suggest both. It's a lot less work.
tjenz
QUOTE(AlkalineDrown @ Mar 28 2006, 04:34 PM) [snapback]51471[/snapback]

I just checked, I'm not listed there


yet
without_opinion
QUOTE(aneg @ Mar 28 2006, 02:43 PM) [snapback]51486[/snapback]

that site is somewhat hilarious. but just ranks in there with the millions of other things i hate about women.

if some dudes started thisbitchiscrazy.com, there'd be riots in the streets.



talk to the bush admin about this -- they're trying to setup a national registry, aren't they?
thrillho
QUOTE(without_opinion @ Mar 28 2006, 02:50 PM) [snapback]51495[/snapback]

talk to the bush admin about this -- they're trying to setup a national registry, aren't they?

a national registry of undateable guys and crazy bitches? how progressive of them.
sin city
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really, is an explanation why NOT to date him necessary?
Diesel
QUOTE(yancy @ Mar 28 2006, 02:39 PM) [snapback]51479[/snapback]

Yeah, it sounds pretty shitty. Guilty until proven innocent, a la murder suspects whose names & faces get plastered all over the Sun Times, WGN, etc.


There's a difference. Murder suspects have at least formally been arrested by a law enforcement agency and charged by a state's attorney. The guys on this site haven't...they just pissed a girl off.
biggie mcsmalls
QUOTE(sin city @ Mar 28 2006, 02:51 PM) [snapback]51499[/snapback]

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really, is an explanation why NOT to date him necessary?


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Alky 2009
QUOTE(aneg @ Mar 28 2006, 02:43 PM) [snapback]51486[/snapback]

if some dudes started thisbitchiscrazy.com, there'd be riots in the streets.


Egg-fucking-zactly. I was thinking more of, Don'tTapThatHoe.com, but same difference.
without_opinion
QUOTE(aneg @ Mar 28 2006, 02:51 PM) [snapback]51498[/snapback]

a national registry of undateable guys and crazy bitches? how progressive of them.


see aneg, the angle i was taking on that joke was that a website of thisbitchiscrazy.com would cover all of the females in the...forget it.
thrillho
QUOTE(without_opinion @ Mar 28 2006, 02:52 PM) [snapback]51505[/snapback]

see aneg, the angle i was taking on that joke was that a website of thisbitchiscrazy.com would cover all of the females in the...forget it.

i like ruining other people's jokes.
velocity
I've never cared for the term "cheating." It's a glib, juvenile euphemism and more evidence of societal dumbing-down.

As for the website, it's a bad idea. There are more and worse kinds of betrayal than spending time with the wrong person. And what's next--"www.CastratingBitch"? "www.BoringInBed"? "www.TooVanilla"? "www.FlaccidDick"?
jmmrsn
QUOTE(AlkalineDrown @ Mar 28 2006, 04:52 PM) [snapback]51503[/snapback]

Egg-fucking-zactly. I was thinking more of, Don'tTapThatHoe.com, but same difference.



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sin city
QUOTE(Biggie McSmalls @ Mar 28 2006, 02:52 PM) [snapback]51502[/snapback]


laugh.gif


coming soon to an avatar near you...
biggie mcsmalls
Do any of you guys watch Cheaters? I can't stop myself from watching it anytime I'm flipping through the dial and it's on.
velocity
QUOTE(AlkalineDrown @ Mar 28 2006, 12:52 PM) [snapback]51503[/snapback]

Egg-fucking-zactly. I was thinking more of, Don'tTapThatHoe.com, but same difference.

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tjenz
QUOTE(Biggie McSmalls @ Mar 28 2006, 04:58 PM) [snapback]51514[/snapback]

Do any of you guys watch Cheaters? I can't stop myself from watching it anytime I'm flipping through the dial and it's on.

great show
I love how everyone denys cheating even when they're looking at the video tape of themselves fucking someone other than their spouse

did you see the episode where the host got stabbed? That was great television
Alky 2009
QUOTE(The Priest @ Mar 28 2006, 03:01 PM) [snapback]51517[/snapback]

great show
I love how everyone denys cheating even when they're looking at the video tape of themselves fucking someone other than their spouse

did you see the episode where the host got stabbed? That was great television


"Nah see, that ain't me cheatin'. I was trying to pick that crazy bitches clothes up off the floor after she stripped down and I slipped on that damn condom wrapper on the floor. Damned if I didn't fall dick first right on top of her."
biggie mcsmalls
QUOTE(The Priest @ Mar 28 2006, 03:01 PM) [snapback]51517[/snapback]

did you see the episode where the host got stabbed? That was great television


No. That's awesome.

The best one I saw was with a couple gay dudes in NYC who got into this huge blow out fight, chasing each other down the street, throwing cups of coffee at each other, the whole nine yards. Then they see some B-level celebrity walking down the street, stop the fight, and start screaming like little girls and chasing after the celebrity to get a better look, all with the Cheaters cameras following them.

NumberTenOx
QUOTE(velocity @ Mar 28 2006, 02:54 PM) [snapback]51507[/snapback]

I've never cared for the term "cheating." It's a glib, juvenile euphemism and more evidence of societal dumbing-down.

As for the website, it's a bad idea. There are more and worse kinds of betrayal than spending time with the wrong person. And what's next--"www.CastratingBitch"? "www.BoringInBed"? "www.TooVanilla"? "www.FlaccidDick"?

Regester these domains NOW.
beansimpson
Just like rate my teacher, no check on what's posted.
Raj (Noble Con)
QUOTE(yancy @ Mar 28 2006, 02:39 PM) [snapback]51479[/snapback]

Yeah, it sounds pretty shitty. Guilty until proven innocent, a la murder suspects whose names & faces get plastered all over the Sun Times, WGN, etc.

Or, you know, guilty of rape until proven innocent regardless of the jury, the evidence, or any other logical factor.

Same thread-starter. Totally unbelievable.
Alky 2009
QUOTE(terremoto! @ Mar 28 2006, 06:25 PM) [snapback]51667[/snapback]

Or, you know, guilty of rape until proven innocent regardless of the jury, the evidence, or any other logical factor.

Same thread-starter. Totally unbelievable.


Ok, so yeah, I got schooled on that other thread and people made some very good points. But is my shock at this website really that unbelievable? I mean, its not like anonymous posting on the internet is a new idea or anything, but this site has a visibility level and lack of oversight that leaves me pretty much shocked.

Unless I'm missing your point and you are agreeing with me, I'm not sure. laugh.gif
kalmia
QUOTE(beansimpson @ Mar 28 2006, 05:45 PM) [snapback]51658[/snapback]

Just like rate my teacher, no check on what's posted.



are you on that one?
wh1tep0ny
thisbitchiscrazy.com is taken god dammit
Raj (Noble Con)
QUOTE(AlkalineDrown @ Mar 28 2006, 06:30 PM) [snapback]51670[/snapback]

Ok, so yeah, I got schooled on that other thread and people made some very good points. But is my shock at this website really that unbelievable? I mean, its not like anonymous posting on the internet is a new idea or anything, but this site has a visibility level and lack of oversight that leaves me pretty much shocked.

Unless I'm missing your point and you are agreeing with me, I'm not sure. laugh.gif

It just struck me that it's so easy to emphasize with a potentially wrongly-convicted man in regard to this issue but not to the other, where the stakes are so much higher. Maybe the ugly nature of the specific incident in question in the other thread just heated it up to that point.
But yeah, I basically agree with everyone else in regards to this thread - not the best way to deal with these things.
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