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RUN...plenty of lesser fish in the sea.

It didn't start out so bad, he was awkward but didn't seem particularly creepy and I was gonna say you were a little harsh, at least until he started sending multiple emails without responses.

Kat, it was one kiss. Let it go. It's obvious he's just not that into you.

Hope he doesn't Google his words!

yikes.
but here's the question. all women have their minds made up on whether or not they'll sleep with a certain guy. would you still sleep with him?

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I'm going to answer for her. No.

Even though it would make for some great reading for the rest of us.

Now if he were a she, and alcohol somehow got involved...

Cocktease.

his first e-mail wasn't very eloquent but it wasn't off or anything. you 'hooked up' in the sense that you kissed casually and he was thinking that it could happen again. can't blame a guy for trying. then he tries to act like he's thinking about you by throwing in some convo, the london part.

you were a little harsh but who cares, guy's a loser.

make nice. and explain why you aren't interested. don't wanna leave him hanging and hating you. at least give him a brief explanation and wish him luck in school or something.

that's creepy

He definitely starts to get a little creepy towards the end, but its kinda hard to tell without your responses included. In a couple of those you posted I can tell that he's responding to something you said to him, so it's difficult to understand what he's playing off of.

In other words, it's pretty easy for you to make him look like a douche when you aren't willing to put your words on display like that. I almost feel sorry for the guy.

You would.

so this guy just kept sending email after email without ever getting a response from you? yeah, that's creepy.

i don't believe in sending multiple emails without a response unless it's like, "oops, i forgot to tell you this..." and that should only be allowed once.

i agree...
i'm not sure if you were responding or not.

if he just kept sending mulitple emails...well, that's weird...but it seems like he is responding to you.

he doesn't sound like a stalker...but he is over analyzing a kiss...

I said "almost", dipshit (TKBII). I still think he turned a little creepy at the end, but the start of the chain wasn't too bad.

Hearing one side of any conversation always gives you a twisted view of what really went down. I'm not faulting her for how she feels, the guy definitely didn't know when to cut his losses. But I could make anyone I converse with out to be an idiot by selectively editing portions of what they've e-mailed me.

Anyone who converses with you is an idiot, so yeah, that would be very easy. Also it is really cute how worked up you get.

I'm not worked up, I'm just pointing out that we aren't getting the whole story.

We never get the whole story from Kat though, do we? Remember her lesbo tease thread? hmmmm....

Man, I seriously don't get airing your personal life so blatantly on a message board.

board would be drabber than it already is if people didn't. it's what makes an etc. board.

but like, what if the dude like, searched around. I dunno, I guess I'm not brave enough to do this.

Here, I'll post my emails on the board.

I have not yet opened a bottle of beer with my penis. I did open a flame-broiled whopper box once though.

There are two exceptions that make it OK.

a. If it's entertaining

b. If you're drunk

it would have been kind of endearing had he not tried to normalize the email w/other random comments. and what is w/the thomas edison rant? anyone?

i haven't responded. i've seen him twice since these emails started; first time was accidental, the 2nd time I approached him @ a bar and told him to stop contacting me (thus the last 3 emails).

ps - this guy's in his 30s. increases the weirdness factor.

Ok, fair enough. I guess the bar thing is what he was referring to, sounded like he was responding to a couple other things. If the response of yours posted is the only thing you've sent him, then yes this is weird.

Kat, for rills, you are like 21 right? And you are making out w/ guys in their thirties? And not anticipating wierdness? Not judging here, just wondering.

Any self-respecting man would have called you a lesbian by the sixth email.

haven't you seen shopgirl? now we're allowed in the 40's.

Invest in mace. And tasers.

BTW, when you say 30's, how deep into the 30's are we talking about?

Does he live in his parents basement?

Oh yeah? Ah well, I wouldn't qualify anyways, what with me being balding and fat and poor. But I am a good musician who can cook, so that has to count for something. Oh yeah, it counts for fat chicks ALSO in their thirties!

early 30s. about 9 yrs. my senior.

I guess that's less creepy. I'd cut off contact. Seriously, if you told him to stop and he sends THREE e-mails, don't respond or anything. Even if you e-mail him to fuck off, I get the feeling that won't help, like any contact will just feed his fixation.

BTW, not really related, but I was watching that Seinfeld episode last night where Elaine maces Crazy Joe Davola with cherry Binaca (sp?). Does that work?

I forget the context, but I brought up shopgirl in another kat thread.

Hey Kat -- Albert Belle is in his 30's...you weren't in Phoenix, were you?

Updated: May 18, 2006, 1:32 PM ET
Albert Belle arrested again on stalking chargeAssociated Press


PHOENIX -- Albert Belle was arrested on a new stalking charge for allegedly making phone calls to a woman he already was charged with harassing.

The 39-year-old former baseball star was arrested by Scottsdale, Ariz., police at his home Wednesday after they investigated new allegations that he made calls to his ex-girlfriend, Sgt. Mark Clark said. Belle is set for a court appearance Thursday in Scottsdale.

Belle was awaiting trial on a felony stalking charge filed in February. The police probable cause statement in that case said his former girlfriend discovered a GPS device that had fallen off her car in January, and that he had threatened her. He was released on bail, subject to electronic monitoring and ordered not to contact her.

Last month, the former girlfriend called police and said she was receiving hang-up phone calls, Clark said. Detectives began an investigation and checked phone records, which showed the calls were coming from Belle. Last week, Belle called and spoke with the woman.

"The nature of the conversation was harassing but not threatening," Clark said.

That was enough probable cause to arrest Belle for felony stalking and violating the previous court order, he said. Clark said because Belle is accused of committing another felony while out on bond, he is ineligible for bail in the new case.

A probable cause statement filed in the new case says the woman "became terrified and asked the defendant if he was crazy contacting her while on release" from the earlier case.

The volatile Belle often ran into trouble on and off the field during his playing days.

A five-time All-Star outfielder, Belle hit 381 career home runs in a 12-year career that began with the Cleveland Indians in 1989. He also played for the Chicago White Sox and Baltimore before retiring in 2000 after his second season with the Orioles.

he looks pretty pissed.

he is thinking about filaments

tell him he is too old for you and you will always think he's creepy no matter what he says to try to convince you otherwise

at least send him a sexy picture of yourself or something like that as a consolation prize. this is probably the only thing he's got going on in his life right now, besides work and the internet.

Let's all chip in and get this guy a hooker!

tell him you just found out you're preggo from another boy. That'll get him to piss off quick-like.

bump, this was a good thread

lol

"but I've always wanted to raise a child. It doesn't matter if its mine, as long as its with you (pauses to make sure it makes him sound sensitive enough to be a father....send)"

hahaha

i always wondered how you met your wife, bean

new email yesterday, asking how i am. my social contact w/this man should be reduced to nil now that it's summer.

copy/paste plz

Smashing Pumpkins werent a very good band were they.

Hey, Kat - I'm in my 30s. Wanna make out?